TOO MUCH FOR THEM

For Women Who Are Done Playing Small in Their Own Lives

OUT 1 September 2026

You know the feeling. You're competent. You're capable. People rely on you and you deliver, every time.

And somewhere underneath that, there's a woman you haven't been in years.

You've been told you're too much. Too intense. Too ambitious. Too emotional. Too loud, too direct, too sure of yourself. You heard it enough times that you built a smaller version and sent her out instead.

This book is about going back for the original.

It's not about confidence. It's not about manifesting. It's about the specific, unglamorous work of dismantling the performance you've been running and finding out what's underneath it. Which is where the good stuff was the whole time.

Fair warning. It's blunt. If you want to be handled gently, this isn't your book.

The book runs on a five-part method. It's called SHIFT, and yes, that's deliberate.

S · Stop the Bullshit

The stories, the excuses, the version of events you've been telling yourself. All of it goes first. Nothing else works until this does.

H · Heal the Damn Foundation

What actually happened to you, and what it taught you about taking up space. You can't build on cracked ground.

I · Inhabit Her

Not "become" her. She already exists. This is about moving back in.

F · Fix Your Frequency

What you tolerate, what you attract, and the gap between what you say you want and what you keep choosing.

T · Take Up Space

The part where you stop apologising for existing at full volume.