You were never too much. They were just too small.

I write for women who have spent years shrinking themselves to fit rooms they've outgrown. There's a way out. It starts with telling yourself the truth.

too much for them

too much for them

A woman making a rebellious face and pointing upwards stands in front of a graphic background with text. The text says "Too much for them" in large pink lettering and "Sarah Pearson" in bold pink letters, with additional smaller text about women living their lives on their own terms.

Too Much For Them

For Women Who Are Done Playing Small in Their Own Lives Out 1 September.

A book about what happens when you stop managing everyone else's comfort and start living in your own life. Not a gentle book. Not a bubble bath book. A book that names the thing you've been circling for years.

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I'm Sarah,

For about twenty years I was very good at being who everyone needed. Calm, capable, unbothered. It was a performance, and I was excellent at it.

And a quiet, persistent sense that I was performing a version of myself I'd built to keep other people comfortable.

I wrote Too Much For Them because I couldn't find the book I needed. The ones I read wanted me calm. Grateful. Manageable. None of them wanted me honest. So I wrote the honest one.